Sincere Silliness: the giddiest takes on The Idea of You from Anne Hathaway, Michael Showalter and Letterboxd

Hayes (Nicholas Galitzine) and Solène (Anne Hathaway) take their romance to new heights in The Idea of You.
Hayes (Nicholas Galitzine) and Solène (Anne Hathaway) take their romance to new heights in The Idea of You.

With The Idea of You now streaming, Annie Lyons rounds up the giddiest Letterboxd reactions to the fanfic-esque rom-com and speaks to Anne Hathaway and Michael Showalter about boy bands, feeding girl audiences and balancing self-awareness with sincerity.

Let’s feed them. Let’s feed [women and girls] stories that are about them. Let’s feed them stories that are born of love and ion and hope. And let’s do that for everybody.

—⁠Anne Hathaway

“I would have been obsessed with this movie when I was a girl. I would have actually been so deeply in love with it,” Anne Hathaway tells me, eyes aglow and raising her hands up to her face almost as if she can picture her younger self discovering The Idea of You, her new romantic comedy directed by Michael Showalter.

Taking on a Notting Hill-esque premise, the Academy Award winner plays Solène, the divorced owner of a Silver Lake art gallery still processing the trust issues left behind by her cheating ex-husband (Reid Scott). When said dirtbag ex bails on a Coachella bonding trip with their teenage daughter Izzy (Ella Rubin), Solène steps in as chaperone. Giving us our second bathroom meet-cute in consecutive years (hello, Rye Lane!), the ive mother enters what she believes is the VIP-area restroom, only to discover it’s actually the trailer of Hayes Campbell (Nicholas Galitzine), member of headliner boy band August Moon. He’s 24 and an international heartthrob. She’s about to turn 40 and doesn’t really care who he is. Can I make it any more obvious?

At the time of writing, over 360,000 Letterboxd —or, since we’re working in boy band , approximately eighteen sold-out Madison Square Garden concerts’ worth—have watched The Idea of You, a feat made all the more impressive considering that the vast majority of these viewings have come during the few weeks since its May 2 release on Prime Video. “This film has everything: flawless songs, tattooed Nicholas Galitzine singing and playing piano and guitar, casually gorgeous Anne Hathaway mothering in every sense of the word, that thing where a romantic comedy takes itself seriously while simultaneously indulging in fantasy. Nearly perfect,” writes Daniel.

For an even more precise definition of “everything”, consider the Letterboxd lists that The Idea of You has already established its presence on, offered in order of increasing nicheness: Bi panic, History of rain kisses, Dance scenes where people do literally what they want, Women with bangs: a canon, Movies with Fiona Apple songs in them and which songs, Dan from Veep plays “the other guy” (ex-husband, new husband) who is… also called Dan (As list creator Gone Girl observes, “It’s weird that it’s happened twice”).

Echoing Hathaway’s own tender thoughts, nostalgic warmth resonates throughout the community reactions to the film as like Cam found themselves transported back to simpler times: “This movie lowkey made me so giddy. Like it had me giggling and kicking my feet lol. As a fan girl at heart, it just brought me back to the days of going to a Jonas Brothers concert when I was a teen and being obsessed with One Direction.” (Naturally, there’s more mentions of Harry Styles than I can count, but more on that later.)

“Wait… because it’s very serious actually!! This movie had me giggling and squealing like I’m a teenage girl again??? How??? For why??? I was having such a good time!! It’s so silly! She’s smart and loves Fiona Apple! He’s a dummy and in a band! It’s cinema!” declares India. “This is for the girls nights. This is for sad days. This is for hot moms!!!!!”

That silly-serious juxtaposition might be key to a deeper understanding of the Letterboxd response to The Idea of You and its current 2.6 average rating out of five, a number that I’ll wholeheartedly confess took me aback after the world premiere brought down the house at SXSW and snagged the film a spot on our Best of the Fest list. However, the respectable like-to-watch ratio, courtesy of the over 61,000 likes that span the whole gamut of star ratings, invites more nuanced analysis. “I said ‘five star masterpiece’ out loud no less than ten times while watching this” proclaims Bobby in a notably three-and-a-half star review. Yet, in a testament to the instinctual yet intricate dichotomies that we all craft to explain our taste, I also know exactly what they mean, contraries be damned. Three stars and a heart might be the most perfect rating, after all.

Hayes and Solène share a memorable first impression, thanks to some bathroom misdirections.
Hayes and Solène share a memorable first impression, thanks to some bathroom misdirections.

For some, it’s neither silly nor serious. A movie will never be everyone’s cup of tea, but just as intriguing to me as the outright unfavorable takes are the positive ratings that still carry an almost apologetic, even if joking, self-reflexiveness. Of course, others mince no words about their loyalties, like Sam: “Fuck the haters. Do you not like love?! You can’t be ok with orcs, dwarves, laser swords, giant sand worms, and shit, but not be ok with Harry Styles and this ridiculously good looking, successful, single mom falling in love.”

For others, it’s silly. Even if the film won’t climb onto their end-of-year lists, it still provides a good time watching with friends. Or, in another word, it’s a “guilty pleasure”—though, as a rom-com-loving advocate for indulgence sans strings, I much prefer the term “Goode Film”, coined by Letterboxd editor-in-chief Gemma Gracewood in honor of the critically disregarded yet enthusiastically exalted Leap Year, starring Matthew Goode. I’ll also note that The Idea of You fits an archetype of films that have experienced the biggest upward trend in average ratings like a glove, as previously explored for our site’s first decade. Only time will tell on that front—check back in here when Letterboxd turns twenty!

For others still, embracing a very much “if you get it, you get it” ethos, it’s silly and it’s serious. “Is this the greatest movie ever made? My One Direction-obsessed, delusional, hopeless romantic, appreciator of hot people with chemistry, Harry Styles-lover-self is inclined to say yes. Had the time of my life with this one; this is what I watch movies for. Please put Anne Hathaway and Nicholas Galitzine as lovers in everything. They lit up every single scene and I, for one, couldn’t get enough,” declares Ana.

August Moon takes the main stage at Coachella.
August Moon takes the main stage at Coachella.

These nuances might not be entirely unfamiliar for nascent Moonheads, considering how boy bands and rom-coms make for a fascinating, fruitful pairing. Both have a history of being dismissed largely because of their gender associations with women and girls, despite that being a demographic that should never be underestimated with how ionately they’ll show up for something. In response to that idea, Hathaway clicks her tongue and fires finger guns in emphasis.

Both also deal in tropes, from marketing-approved labels of “the heartthrob” and “the bad boy” to the innumerable genre delights encoming everything between “the grand gesture” and “two people, one bed”. On the most surface level alone, Solène and Hayes’s relationship falls into Opposites attract; Celebrities falling in love with normies; Older woman/younger man; He says i’m so american oh god i’m gonna marry him (aka films that feature an American girl falling for a British guy, aptly named after Olivia Rodrigo’s ‘so american’). Amid the familiar touchstones, Isabella singles out the meet-cute, which “was everything I hoped for tbh; she actually brought Normal People to read at Coachella??? lmao sooo y/n coded. I HAD SO MUCH FUN”, while Heben praises: “Chemistry! Vulnerability! A random item of clothing being left behind at someone’s house so they have an excuse to see each other again! Rom-com girlies, we eating good!”

Considering how The Idea of You plays around with genre expectations, Hathaway reflects, “We were so lucky to have Michael Showalter direct us because I think that in anyone else’s hands, irony might have taken over or, in equal measure, sincerity. He keeps us on this knife edge between being aware of the form and subverting it. We did a Q&A at the end of the SXSW screening, and I never really realized this is what Michael was doing—of course, it makes sense—but he was like, ‘I wanted to hold them off from kissing as long as possible.’ He doesn’t like us to talk about it, but he’s so a master in this genre in particular: the way he’s able to hold the audience, reveal the characters, the way he wants their attraction to each other to actually just be rooted in hanging out. All of that feels very, very exciting.”

Director Michael Showalter and Anne Hathaway behind the scenes of The Idea of You.
Director Michael Showalter and Anne Hathaway behind the scenes of The Idea of You.

Noting Hayes’s insecurities around his success and artistry, Showalter (a rom-com stalwart now, having also directed The Big SickThe Lovebirds and Hello, My Name Is Doris) says, “I like finding something that’s cool in something that’s not supposed to be cool, and so boy bands, there’s something very sincere about it. There’s something very vulnerable, almost.” But for the director, who co-wrote the script with Jennifer Westfeldt, the allure of pop music more broadly than boy bands alone, fascinates him.

“You have this nice moment where the most popular music is also some of the most interesting music,” he explains. “And that’s both men and women, whether it’s Billie Eilish or Harry Styles or Taylor Swift. So for me, the opportunity to make a movie about a boy band was really an opportunity to have a movie with great music in it and great dancing and great costumes, and not to make fun of boy bands or point at them and say, ‘Oh, isn’t this silly?’ The harder thing to do is to legitimize it and actually get beneath the thing to realize, ‘Well, really what is happening? What is special about this?’”

To his point, August Moon’s discography comes courtesy of Savan Kotecha, a songwriter and producer responsible for shaping some of the greatest pop hits of the past fifteen years, including the One Direction song that started it all: ‘What Makes You Beautiful’.

A quick word on the tattooed British elephant in the room: though The Idea of You has been hailed as “fanfictioncore” and “straight out of wattpad”, the source novel of the same name by Robinne Lee is, in actuality, not fanfiction. According to the author, Harry Styles is just one small inspiration for Hayes Campbell, who can also consider Prince Harry, Eddie Redmayne and Duran Duran among his many celebrity references.

For his part, Galitzine has also intentionally distanced Hayes from Harry, nodding instead toward golden era boy bands like Backstreet Boys and twinkle-toed K-pop groups like BTS. (As a proud attendee of the 2013 Take Me Home Tour, I’ll back him up here: the unchoreographed boys on the stairs simply never could’ve danced before they walked, thank you very much.)

Still, the film adaptation leans into wish fulfillment more than the novel with a considerably more optimistic ending, and if the Letterboxd reviews are any indication, it’s all part of the fun to bring your own past and present fantasies to the equation. I simply can’t resist The King of Burbank’s pitch-perfect reference: “Very impressive evolution of a fan fiction into something that, in the immortal words of Harry Styles, feels like a movie. Anne Hathaway is the perfect millennial icon to transition us into taking this seriously and Nicholas Galitzine is earnest and swoon worthy and stupid in the most delightful way. This relationship isn’t just a punchline. It’s sincere and well developed.”

This review also gets to the heart of why The Idea of You hits right for some : Anne Hathaway gets to do so much here. “I like the idea of Anne Hathaway being able to make any movie she wants, and the rest of us just being appreciative that we get to watch it,” reflects Joe. Her casting creates new layers: as Solène navigates a maelstrom of double-standard-informed misogyny, the film almost reads as a meta middle finger toward the heinous online toxicity targeted at the actor in the early 2010s.

On a more playful note, watching Queen Amelia Mignonette Thermopolis Renaldi of Genovia and His Royal Highness, Prince Henry George Edward James Hanover-Stuart Fox link up feels like more than a fun tie-in—it’s also indicative of how both Hathaway and Galitzine had their respective breakout moments with lighter fare centered on love, joy and blossoming into one’s own (Don’t forget Ella of Frell either!). In an industry—and society—with very real hang-ups surrounding women and age, there’s something exhilarating in The Idea of You’s central thesis prioritizing those ideas.

Sparks fly on a whirlwind summer tour.
Sparks fly on a whirlwind summer tour.

When I bring up that royal connection to Hathaway, she smiles, saying, “I loved what you said about not underestimating women and girls as an audience. I will go one step further in saying: let’s feed them. Let’s feed them stories that are about them. Let’s feed them stories that are born of love and ion and hope. And let’s do that for everybody.” Those are also stories that don’t stop here, deliciously. Galitzine and his Red, White & Royal Blue co-star Taylor Zakhar Perez recently announced an sequel, and the long-awaited third entry for The Princess Diaries is currently in development as of April 2024. Luca Guadagnino, I believe you’ve been summoned?

A fuzzy fluffy little rom-com, a favorite comfort movie, a girl dinner, a slumber party pick, a Goode Film—however choose to frame their affection might be beside the point at the end of the day. I’d venture what matters most is that full-belly contentedness that The Idea of You provides those with eager plates, those who already look forward to their next serving, like Channing, who’s logged the film an impressive seven times. A missive from their fifth watch sums it all up best: “It was a beautiful night for a beautiful movie. I have a long thousand something word review waiting in the wings but… that doesn’t matter anymore. I’m at peace.”


The Idea of You’ is now streaming on Prime Video.

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